Polyamorous Percolations What was Brewed in 2005?


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December 30, 2005 - 9:20 AM
I'm very unhappy to announce this, but until further notice Growing Up Poly is suspended. I'm not entirely sure when or even if it will resume anytime in the near future. I'll keep you informed as I receive additional information.

December 29, 2005 - 7:45 AM
Polyamory Weekly #38 is live this morning, and Polyamorous Percolations is the sponsor! Make sure you listen in to hear our audio spot I recorded. Also coming up on this week's show: minx is feeling better; compersion; bisexuals; moving to Canada; the benefits of being secondary. You can view and listen to the entire Polyamory Weekly archives here.

December 28, 2005 - 9:20 PM
We're having a particularly interesting discussion in our forums as of late regarding the difficulties in transitioning from monogamy to polyamory. You can read the entire thread here.

December 27, 2005 - 8:45 PM
We've got a new article for you tonight. I decided to reprint this particular piece for all the new folks who have joined our forums as of late. Several of them have been asking for advice in the area of talking to their monogamous partners regarding their polyamorous feelings. Check out Franklin Veaux's thoughts on this subject by reading the article in its entirety right here.

December 23, 2005 - 8:15 AM
We've got a new article for you this morning. This is a nicely written piece from the San Francisco Chronicle that talks about committment in polyamorous relationships. It's live under the Feature Articles section right now, so why not read Committed to marriage... right now?!

December 20, 2005 - 8:20 PM
Three's Company is all new for you tonight. This is a week earlier than normal, but Chel is going to be releasing her column late this month, so I figured that I'd release mine early. Check out my feelings on a potentially difficult task to master....it's live under the Monthly Columns section, or you can find it right here.

December 19, 2005 - 6:12 AM
We are always looking for new column writers interested in having their insights and opinions regarding the polyamorous lifestyle published. We strive to deliver fresh, insightful, and educational content to the folks who visit this community. Are you interested in writing a column for us? This column would be completely yours, all subjects and topics would be left to your discretion, and you'd get your very own byline! Why not check out the Contribute Writing section for more information?!

December 18, 2005 - 8:00 PM
We are now officially migrated over to our new email newsletter server. This one is much more flexible and powerful. It is completely free of advertisements, and it will also allow us to send an unlimited number of fully customizable HTML messages. Existing subscribers have been migrated over, there's no need to re-register. I hope you all enjoy this.

December 18, 2005 - 6:30 AM
So, I get up this morning, and the server that I'm trying to migrate the mailing list to is down. Until further notice we're back to the Bravenet one I was using before. I hate doing the two step sometimes.

December 17, 2005 - 10:00 PM
I'm in the process of transferring our Bravenet.com mailing list over to a much more powerful and flexible host. If you're an existing member, you will receive an email from YourMailingListProvider with a subject of email address verification. Simply follow the instructions in this email to verify your address to be added to the new list. Please, do not unsubscribe from the old list until we let you know that we've completely switched. Thanks. IMPORTANT: Disregard the above message. If you'd like to subscribe to the new email list, follow the new subscription link on the right hand side of this page to be added to the new list. I apologize for the confusion.

December 16, 2005 - 10:30 AM
Our calendar is now open to everyone for posting events. Feel free to post any upcoming poly events whenever you like. The calendar can be posted on by guest as well as registered members alike. Why did I allow guests to post here? I feel that this is a service that should be allowed to anyone wishing to communicate upcoming events.

December 16, 2005 - 9:45 AM
We have a new Feature Article for you today. In this one Kathy Labriola, Counselor/Nurse, talks a little about exploring ethical non-monogamy. You can read the entire article right here.

December 15, 2005 - 6:30 AM
Polyamory Weekly #37 has finally appeared. Apparently minx is even sicker than just the flu (or she was). She's been in the hospital, but she's on the mend and should be back next week. Graydancer and Genevieve fill in for her this week. Our ad spot isn't part of the show, but they do mention our address change. I'll let you know when I find out which show it will be in.

December 13, 2005 - 12:30 PM
Many thanks to our very own alan for allowing us to post a link to his poly imPRESSions blog page at polyandproud.com! You can find this new resource under the Extras section above, or by going here. Thanks again alan for providing us this valuable resource!

December 13, 2005 - 8:20 AM
We have a fresh new article for you this morning! Check out this piece from the Guardian Unlimited which talks about.....well, find out for yourself, it's right here!

December 12, 2005 - 11:00 AM
As you can see, I've done some rearranging. This was done as a result of member feedback and will hopefully make navigation a bit easier. The information that used to be in this spot can now be found by following the About Us link in the Extras section.

December 11, 2005 - 10:00 PM
Well, the forums are back, sort of. We have absolutely no history whatsoever that survived the crash and I've deleted the old boards entirely. That might not have been the decision that everyone wanted, but it's the one I made in the best interest of the community as a whole. Aside from that, we will now make a fresh start with the new forums. If you wish to join us again, head on over to the new forums and register!

December 10, 2005 - 10:20 PM
It's very likely that if I can't figure out how to restore the forums from the backup that I have that they will simply be deleted permanently. I just don't have the time right now to go through all of the work needed to recreate the entire forums all over again. I'll let you all know what decision I make in the morning (if not sooner).

December 10, 2005 - 11:15 AM
As I'm sure you have noticed, there's something wrong with the forums. I'm not entirely sure what the problem is, and right now I have no time to fix it as I have to leave for work. I'll be back after 8:00 tonight. I'm frustrated with these forums and not sure what I'm going to do at this point.

December 9, 2005 - 10:50 PM
I just got confirmation that cunning minx, host of Polyamory Weekly, is in fact down with a pretty bad case of the flu. This is the reason that her show isn't appearing this week. I'm not sure, but I would assume that our advertising spot will appear in next weeks episode, so don't miss it!

December 9, 2005 - 11:40 AM
The long awaited interview with Michael Dean Goodman is live right now! Many thanks both to our very own PolyAnna as well as Michael for making this interview a reality! Check out Interview with a Poly under Monthly Columns if you're interested in reading this interview.

December 8, 2005 - 3:50 PM
I'm very happy to announce that we have an all new Monthly Column for you starting today! Pegasus and Renaissance Man have both agreed to co-author our newest column - Looking for Poly. Read all about their journey from monogamy to polyamory as they share their experiences with us! It's live under the Monthly Column section right now!

December 7, 2005 - 11:00 AM
Our new user forums are online as of right now! We'll be maintaining both our new forum and our old one for a while until we're sure all of the bugs are worked out. For complete details regarding this transition, go here. To access the new forums follow the New Forums link above, to access the old forums follow the Old Forums link above. As always, we welcome any feedback from our visitors.

December 7, 2005 - 11:55 PM
A big welcome to the newest member of our community, innocentprncss. I hope that you find our little home away from home warm and welcoming! I look forward to hearing your input in our forums.

December 7, 2005 - 7:00 AM
Polyamory Weekly seems to be late in appearing this episode. I do know that minx has a pretty bad case of the flu, so this is understandable. As soon as I'm aware that it's live I'll let you all know.

December 6, 2005 - 10:30 PM
PolyAnna's Percolations is all new tonight! Read all about her personal experiences with being stuck in the middle of her triad. It's live under the Monthly Articles section right now!

December 5, 2005 - 10:00 PM
Don't forget to tune into Polyamory Weekly #37 on Tuesday, December 6th, as Polyamorous Percolations sponsors our second edition. This sponsorship, along with our all new website address, was made possible through generous donations from members of our community.

December 5, 2005 - 12:09 PM
Would you like your own free polyamoryonline.org email account? If so, follow the Free Email link above, or go here for more information.

December 4, 2005 - 6:23 PM
I'd like to welcome the newest member to our community, kliensendelbach!! I hope you find this little community as beneficial as we do!

December 3, 2005 - 11:10 PM
As you may have noticed, we have an all new address as of today! We're now located on our own dedicated server, with an all new address. If you currently link to us, or know someone who does, pass along our new home at http://www.polyamoryonline.org/!

December 2, 2005 - 10:10 AM
I'd like to thank Alan for yet another generous donation to our community! This will be used for making many improvements to our community. Among these are upgraded forums and, in the very near future, the purchase of our own unique website address. Thanks again Alan!

December 1, 2005 - 3:55 PM
We're planning an event to celebrate our one year anniversary, and you're invited! Check out the Stew & Brew 2006 section above for more information.

December 1, 2005 - 9:20 AM
It's a new month, and with the new month comes a new section for you! We're happy to announce the all new Poly Parenting section of our community. This section will be a work in progress. Our very own Momma Chel, author of our original column Growing Up Poly, is the managing editor and all comments or suggestions should be directed to her via the Letters to The Editor section of our user forums.

November 30, 2005 - 9:32 AM
We have a new feature article this morning! This piece is from Relating, and it talks about The Universal Solution. What exactly might that be? Read it and find out for yourself! It's live under the Feature Articles section right now!

November 29, 2005 - 8:29 PM
I'd like to announce that we have not one new member today, but two!! I'd like to welcome both redhead93428 and thisgirlsgottado to our little community!! I hope you both find yourselves at home here, and I encourage you both to tell us a little about yourselves over on the Introduction board!
Again, welcome to our home...I think you'll find everyone here very nice and easy to talk to.

November 29, 2005 - 12:21 PM
Polyamory Weekly #36 is live today! Coming up on this week's show: Graydancer and minx discuss being in the closet over Thanksgiving and the upcoming Austin Rope Symposium, and Sean David Wright shares his motivations and thoughts on his novel, Two for One.
Check out the entire PW archives at the official Polyamory Weekly website.
Also, don't forget to tune into the December 6th edition of PW, as we will be sponsoring that upcoming episode!

November 28, 2005 - 10:41 AM
We have released a new section today entitled From Our Forums. This will feature a currently active thread from our forums. I invite you all to read these threads and jump right into the conversation! This is live under the Thoughts section right now!

November 28, 2005 - 8:08 AM
I would like to welcome oneoffdave, the newest member to our little community! I actually invited dave to join us here after reading an email he wrote regarding being raised in a polyamorous family. As you can see, he accepted my invitation, thanks so much for becoming part of our little family dave!

November 27, 2005 - 9:38 PM
Thanks to PolyAnna, I found out that we had inadvertently published a bit of misinformation. The piece entitled It Doesn't Interest Me, published under the Letters section, is actually entitled The Invitation, and is the original work of Oriah Mountain Dreamer, an Indian Elder. I apologize for this unintentional oversight, which has been rectified.

November 26, 2005 - 10:47 PM
We have a fresh edition of Three's Company for you as of right now! This month I share some of my insights on how the line between polyamory and swinging can become blurred. Check it out, it's live in the Monthly Articles section even as you're reading this!

November 24, 2005 - 10:50 PM
I'm happy to announce that we've released a lot of new products in our online store today! Why not do some Yule shopping for that special someone while supporting our community at the same time? All proceeds from our online store will benefit this community.

November 23, 2005 - 10:42 PM
A blessed Mabon to you all. May this Thanksgiving Day harvest provide you with all that you have desired as the equinox comes to fruition.

November 22, 2005 - 10:05 PM
Polyamory Weekly #35 is live tonight. Coming up on this week's show: love and silliness; poly in the media and a Philadelphia swinger club is shut down. Check out the entire PW archives at the official Polyamory Weekly website.

November 21, 2005 - 11:15 AM
I may not be able to control the online or offline status of our forums, but I can keep you informed in a real time manner. From now on when you load this main page, you will see either the word online (in green) or the word offline (in red) next to the forums link. Youl'll need to refresh the page to change this status image, but hopefully this will make things a little more convenient.

November 20, 2005 - 11:35 PM
The user forums are back online, thanks for your patience.

November 20, 2005 - 10:42 PM
Once again, the server that hosts our forums is down for whatever reason. We apologize for the inconvenience, but it is out of our control. All we can suggest is that you try navigating to the forums periodically to check on their status. The only type of technical support I get from these folks is "Check the server status page and see if it's online or not". (We're on server 28) Maybe it's time to find a new forum host...but the thought of all those lost posts gives me a headache. Aargh!

November 20, 2005
We have a new Feature Article for you this morning! This piece, from Planet Waves, talks all about compersion. Check it out, it's live right now in the Feature Articles section!

November 17, 2005
Growing Up Poly is all new this morning! This month Momma Chel talks about how she manages to de-stress her life through her children. Check it out under the Monthly Columns section right now!

November 15, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #34 is live this morning. Coming up: more on Mormons, stroking the minx, the Wicked Winter Renaissance Faire, and an interview with Lolita Wolf. Check out the entire PW archives at the official Polyamory Weekly website.

November 15, 2005
I'm very happy to announce the opening of the all new Polyamorous Percolations online storefront! This is a collection of original, affordable merchandise for you and those you love. The proceeds of this shop will help us to maintain and promote this community, as well as to compensate the contributing writers and other staff members who have thus far volunteered their time and efforts. Check out our new store today for all your holiday shopping needs!

November 14, 2005
I'd like to welcome the newest member to our forums, pegnrm! This member is actually two, a husband and wife exploring polyamory for the first time. They've introduced themselves and are looking for advice on entering into a polyamory relationship. Welcome pegnrm; I hope that you both find what you're looking for in our little community!

November 13, 2005
We have a new article this morning. This piece, In a Perfect Poly World, contains some more thoughts from Janet Kira Lessin of The World Polyamory Association. It's live in the Feature Articles section right now!

November 11, 2005
Many thanks to Alan for the generous donation he made to our community! His donation will be used, in part, to sponsor another episode of Polyamory Weekly next month. Thanks again for dropping something in our Tip Cup!

November 10, 2005
If you'd like to drop a little something in our tip cup, simply click on the link above and PayPal it to poly.percs@gmail.com. Any tips received will be used to offset the cost of running this community. Or, if you would like to sponsor us, your banner or advertisement could appear at the top of this page! Contact us for details regarding sponsorship options.

November 9, 2005
I have a fantastic surprise for you all! Despite the fact that she is still recovering from what Hurricane Wilma did to her and her family, PolyAnna came through with a brand new edition of her Percolations! This was totally unexpected, but it's yet another fantastic piece of writing! Check it out, it's live under Monthly Columns right now!

November 8, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #33 is live this morning! Coming up on this week's show: Heinlein, labels, writing erotica and a special interview with BDSM/poly-friendly author, Stephen Elliott. Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email cunningminx@gmail.com, or check out the entire weekly podcast archives at Polyamory Weekly.

November 8, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #33 seems to be late in appearing this week, we'll post it as soon as we know that it's live. Also, we've added a new resource to our External Links section. Be sure to check out the all new Diane Vera's Polyamory Page that has just been added.

November 7, 2005
We are always looking for new column writers interested in having their insights and opinions regarding the polyamorous lifestyle published. We strive to deliver fresh, insightful, and educational content to the folks who visit this community. Interested in writing a column for us? This column would be completely yours, all subjects and topics would be left to your discretion, and you'd get your very own byline! Why not check out the Contribute Writing section for more information?!

November 6, 2005
We have a new article for you this morning! This particular piece deals with Managing Expectations. It was originally published as part of the Quasi-Monogamy, building identity and better relationships project and is available for reprint here under a creative commons license.

I'd also like to welcome the newest member of our forums, gloriajn! I hope you find yourself at home here, and find whatever it is you seek.

November 4, 2005
The "Visitors today" portion of the Info Center isn't quite functioning like I had hoped. The host of the counter is a French company, and apparently the daily hit value resets itself based on Paris time. There isn't any way to adjust this based on time zone, so I'm not sure if I'll leave it in place or delete it. If anyone knows of a better solution, please do email me and let me know.

November 2, 2005
I added an Info Center in the bottom right corner of the main page. This Info Center will tell you the daily visitor count, the current visitor count, and the cumulative visitor count for our community.

Also, our ad spot was aired during Polyamory Weekly #32 last night, and I thought it went well. Listen for yourself and let me know what you think!

November 1, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #32 is live now! Coming up on this week's show: poly living, poly dating, those crazy Mormons, poly conferences, poly in the media, a poly sponsor and communication wisdom.
You can view the entire archives of Polyamory Weekly at http://graydancer.libsyn.com/.

November 1, 2005
We have a new article for you today! Check out Dr. Deborah Anapol's piece on the The Future Of The Family And The Fate Of Our Children. It's live in the Feature Articles section right now!

Also, remember to tune into Polyamory Weekly #32 tonight. Polyamorous Percolations will be sponsoring this episode, and I've even recorded the advertisement to be played on the show!

October 31, 2005
Happy Halloween to all who observe it, or a Blessed Samhein to all my fellow Pagans! I hope that you all stay safe and receive whatever tricks or treats you are in search of on this day.

October 29, 2005
As you can see, I've added a banner at the top of the page. This is to hopefully help folks affected by the ravages of Hurricane Wilma. Our very own PolyAnna is living in the middle of this latest evidence of Mother Nature's wrath. You can read all about her situation in our user forums.

October 27, 2005
Three's Company is all new for you this morning! Come check out some of my thoughts on The Big Green Monster. What the heck is that, you ask? Read it and see!

October 26, 2005
I want to give a big welcome to the newest member of our forums, fractionaltrine! I look forward to hearing all the things that you have to share with us, and I hope that you find our community enjoyable.

October 25, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #31 is live today! Coming up on this week's show: poly living arrangements, Big Love and Dr. Ruth says there is no such thing as a bisexual!
You can view the entire archives of Polyamory Weekly at http://graydancer.libsyn.com/.

Also, If you have joined our update list, you must follow the instructions that you received in your confirmation email in order to become an active member and receive updates. The list has an "opt-in" security feature to protect your privacy. If you don't confirm within seven days of joining, the list will automatically delete you.

October 25, 2005
I'm happy to welcome the three newest members to our forums....Sophia, Puck, and Janus! They are all members of the same Equilateral Triad, and I can't wait to hear the life experiences they have to share with us. Welcome to you all, I hope you find this community enjoyable!

October 24, 2005
I've completed the site-wide change that will allow folks visiting our community to increase or decrease the font size as needed for optimum viewing.
As always, if you notice any problems as a result of these changes please do let me know.

October 23, 2005
As a result of viewer feedback, I've begun addiing some code to the website that will allow the user to increase or decrease the font size at which they view the site. You will notice a "plus" and "minus" image at the top of the page. Clicking on each will either increase or reduce the font size accordingly.
This change is currently live on all areas of the website except for the Articles section and the Article Archives. These remaining changes will be completed within the week.

October 21, 2005
We have a new article for you today. This is a piece from the Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, and it discusses what polyamory is vs. what it isn't. It's live in the Feature Articles section right now!

October 19, 2005
Growing Up Poly is all new this morning. Check out Momma Chel's advice for interacting with your kids as you're raising them in a poly family.
I also added an opt-in list for site-wide updates. Simply fill in the information in the box at the lower left of this page to receive updates via your inbox.

October 18, 2005
Polyamory Weekly #30 is up today. On this week's show: a monogamist sounds in about Jacques Attali's article; MinofSin and minx sit down and discuss Christian faith/ethics/spirituality with respect to polyamory; and Michelle Belanger's book Sacred Hunger is finally out!

October 18, 2005
The all new Interview With a Poly section is live today! Cunning Minx, creator and host of the Polyamory Weekly podcast, is the first member of the poly community to be featured here. Read her thoughts on the lifestyle under the Monthly Columns section. Are you interested in being interviewed by us and have the interview appear in this community? If so, contact us today!
Also, Cunning Minx has graciously allowed us to link to her weekly podcast, which can be found under the Resources Section starting today. Her podcast is generally released on Tuesday of each week, so check back weekly for fresh content.

October 15, 2005
Polyamorous Percolations was mentioned in the opening segment of the latest Polyamory Weekly podcast! Many thanks to cunning minx for this mention, as well as the listing she gave us on her LJ page!

October 14, 2005
We're currently having a discussion on our forums as to whether or not our new article, No Secrets, No Lies, actually pertains to polyamory or not. What's your opinion? Join the discussion here and give us your thoughts.

October 14, 2005
We have a new article for you today. Come check out Hank Pine's story about his journey from monogamy to polyamory in No Secrets, No Lies. It's in the Feature Articles section right now!

October 12, 2005
We are very happy to announce a new addition to the Polyamorous Percolations community - Interview With A Poly! This will be just as it sounds; interviews with folks living a poly lifestyle. Our premier edition will be with someone who is gaining prominence in the lifestyle. Who is it? Check back often, as this new section will be here within the next week!

October 08, 2005
PolyAnna's Percolations is all new today! Check out her thoughts on the ability to read the minds of your spice - or not be able to, as the case most often is.

October 07, 2005
As I'm sure you've noticed, I changed the site again. These changes will make it so that you no longer need to maximize your browser to view it properly. Also, we now have only one index page and style sheet as opposed to the two we had before. As far as I can tell everything should look fine regardless of browser or screen resolution, but if you find a problem please let me know. Also, if you see anything that looks like the old site, refresh your browser or delete cookies. Thanks and enjoy!

October 01, 2005
We have a new article for you this morning. Come read some of Black Eagle's thoughts on Understanding Opposition to Polyamory. It's live in the Feature Articles section right now!

Sept. 30, 2005 - News
Apparently the server that hosts are forums has been having problems as of late. I have no answers for you all, but can point you in the direction of a status page. The ProBoards Status Page will let you know if our server is online, offline, or busy. We are on Server 28. I apologize for this problem, but it is beyond my control.

Sept. 29, 2005 - Update
I've expanded the Articles section to now include a link to some of the archived articles from the main page. The all new Article Archives are now open for business.

Sept. 27, 2005 - Update
Thanks to Diana for allowing us to add her Poly Manifesto to the Thoughts section of the website. It's a fantastic addition to our community! Thanks again Diana for your contribution!

Sept. 26, 2005 - Update
Three's Company is all new today! This may be one of my most controversial colums to date, but I'm not interested in that. I wrote this particular piece because I felt it needed to be said. Check it out in the Articles section and see what you think!

Sept. 24, 2005 - News
I made a few cosmetic changes throughout the site, nothing major. Also, now that we have three original columns featured every month the frequency of reprinted articles will be greatly diminished. I'd love to have someone contribute another original column, thereby giving us one per week. If you're interested feel free to check out the Contribute Writing section for more info!

Sept. 18, 2005 - Update
As promised we have an all new, original column starting today! Check out our very own Momma Chel's column surrounding children growing up in a poly lifestyle! Growing Up Poly is in the articles section right now!

Sept. 15, 2005 - News
I'm very happy to announce that we will be featuring a new, original column starting September 19th! This will be a column related to children in poly families, and the author will be our very own Chel!! I've got the first edition, and it's great! Look for it on the 19th!!

Sept. 12, 2005 - Update
PolyAnna has given us yet another fantastic column this month! This time around she has some advice about about how to not lose yourself while accommodating all of your other partners.

Sept. 08, 2005 - News
In addition to the Poly for Kids section we're currently working on, I'm thinking about adding a section featuring interviews with folks in the poly community. Would this work? Would folks be willing to participate? Would you read it? Your feedback is needed!

Sept. 04, 2005 - Update
I changed the color scheme to accomodate older monitors that were viewing the site much darker than was intended. Feedback is always welcome, as we want to know what you all think.

Sept. 04, 2005 - News
We are currently in the process of compiling a section all about kids living in a poly family. In order to make this the most beneficial to everyone, we need some help from you. You can review the entire request here!

Sept. 02, 2005 - Update
The Baltimore Sun did a fantastic piece on the East Coast Loving More Conference. Since we've already read what Alan had to say about it, I decided to feature the Sun's coverage as one of this month's new articles.

Aug. 31, 2005 - Update
Many thanks to Anne for the feedback she sent us regarding the website. She also sent us some additional resources, which we have published under the Other Readings section. Input like this helps us improve our community for everyone.

Aug. 30, 2005 - Update
Our very own Alan attended the Loving More conference last weekend. He graciously agreed to give us some of his impressions for all to read (these are his his opinions, we welcome yours).
Feel free to check out his thoughts in the Articles section.

Aug. 27, 2005 - Update
Three's Company is all new this morning! This month I decided to do an article on Sense of Community; what it means to me as well as what it might mean to others.
Please do check it out in the Articles section.

Aug. 22, 2005 - News
Let's all welcome the newest member of our forums - alan! I hope you enjoy your stay with us and we look forward to hearing whatever you may contribute to our little community.

Aug. 16, 2005 - Update
Check out some of Franklin Veaux's thoughts on Common Poly Mistakes and things you should never do. This will be a two part series with the second half appearing next month.
Never Do This: Common Poly Mistakes is live in the Articles Section right now!

Aug. 15, 2005 - News
Let's all welcome the newest member of our forums - Owen! He's the latest member of our little community. Welcome Owen, I hope you enjoy your stay with us. If you have any more questions feel free to drop us a line.

Aug. 11, 2005 - Update
PolyAnna's Percolations is all new today! Check out her thoughts & opinions on failed relationships and the societal programming surrounding our lifestyle.

Aug. 04, 2005 - News
I've added a new section to the website entitled Other Readings. This section is a listing of books, essays, and other published work relating to the polyamorous lifestyle. It can be found under the Articles section.

Aug. 03, 2005 - Update
We have a new article for you today! Check out Some Thoughts On Polyamory as featured on the Heartless Bitches website. It offers some very interesting insights into our lifestyle, and can be found in the articles section.

Aug. 02, 2005 - Update
I've implemented a new piece of code for the site today. Any items that have been updated will now show a flashing red dot. This dot will appear next to the link for seven days. After that it will no longer be visible.

July 31, 2005 - Update
Three's Company is all new this morning. This month I step off the beaten path a little and talk about how the rules of society can be interpreted to suit whoever wishes, particularly folks who are recognized professionals in one field or another.

July 30, 2005 - News
I'd like to welcome kitty to our forums! I hope you enjoy our community and find it useful. We may be a small community, but the members we have are insightful and very supportive.
Again welcome, and I look forward to hearing your input.

July 26, 2005 - Update
I added a lot of new events and gatherings to the calendar today. Please remember that these postings simply serve as reminders and are not endorsements.
Also, if you have something you would like posted on the calendar, email us and let us know.

July 24, 2005 - News
We are currently looking for column writers interested in having their insights and opinions regarding the Poly lifestyle published. This column would be completely yours, and all subjects and topics would be left to your discretion, and you'd get your very own byline!
So, if you feel that you have something to say that others would like to hear or benefit from, why not check out the Contribute Writing section of the website today?!

July 16, 2005 - Update
The new site layout is live today! Hopefully I haven't missed anything, but if I have someone please email me and let me know. Provided that everything remains stable our update schedule will resume it's normal pace in a few days.

July 12, 2005 - Update
PolyAnna has given yet another fantastic edition of her Percolations! Check out her latest column on Defining Morality here! We also have another new member to our forums today! Let's all welcome p3 and check out what she's already posted in the forums today.

July 7, 2005 - News
Welcome to the newest member of our forums, tangie! I hope you enjoy your time with us and benefit from the fantastic insight our other members have to offer!

July 5, 2005 - News
Welcome to the two newest members of our forums...Perry and guyfleegman! Both have already become active members and have great insights and opinions to offer us. We're glad to have you as members and look forward to hearing from you both in the future!

July 4, 2005 - Update
Happy Independence day to all of you living in the United States! Have a happy and safe celebration.
We have a new column for you today! Today's feature has some advice for folks attempting to transition from a cheating relationship to a poly one. It's featured in the Articles section, and can be found here!

June 30, 2005 - Update
Three's Company is all new tonight! Feel free to check out my thoughts on NRE here.

June 28, 2005 - News
I received what I thought was a very touching email the other day from one of the people on the polyfamiles yahoo group. I contacted the person who posted it and got their permission to reprint it. It's entitled "It doesn't interest me" and can be found in the Letters Section. Check it out if you like.

June 26, 2005 - News
We are currently looking for two more column writers interested in having their insights and opinions regarding the Polyamorous lifestyle published. This column would be completely yours, and all subjects and topics would be left to your discretion. So, if you feel that you have something that others would like to hear, why not check out the Contribute Writing section today?!

June 23, 2005 - News
Welcome to the newest member of our forums - cloudedmind! It's nice to have you as a member and we look forward to hearing more from you in the future!

June 21, 2005 - News
I've created a survey that will hopefully help us to improve things regarding the forums. If you would like to take this survey we would greatly appreciate the feedback. The survey is brief (nine questions) and can be found here. If you're a member of the forums and tried to take the survey already but were unable, that's because I failed to open it to the public. (Yeah I know, duh.) Anyway, it is now open to all.

June 18, 2005 - Update
We have a new article today! Come read about Relationships in Transition today.

June 17, 2005 - News
Welcome to redsorceress, the newest member of our forums! Not only has she joined, but she's already posted. Why not head on over and read her thoughts regarding Time Management Concerns?

June 14, 2005 - News
We all know that Polyamorous families risk scrutiny of child protection agencies, but it's nice to know that sometimes they're on our side too. Read about Cyn's run-in with her state’s child protection agency Here.

June 13, 2005 - Update
PolyAnna's Percolations is fresh and insightful today! This edition discusses relationships within relationships and how they interact with the expanded family unit. Read it in it's entirety right Here!

June 11, 2005 - Update
Added some new events to the calendar for the months of July and August. Check out what's happening in the Events / Gatherings section Here.

June 10, 2005 - News & Update
Welcome to ~Mystic Exotica~, the newest member of our online forums! I hope you enjoy your stay with us, but just one question...why aren't the rest of you members posting? I also posted a new journal entry today, you can view my most recent ramblings Here.

June 8, 2005 - News
If you were an existing member of the forums prior to the upgrade and now you're have problems logging in, please email us and let us know. Also, if you are a new member trying to join and you're having problems doing so please contact us so we can try and resolve these issues with our server. If we can't resolve them then we wil be forced to try a different forum system. Thanks for your help!

June 8, 2005 - Update
We have a new article today entitled Beyond Polyamory. In this article you will find the thoughts of Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, Ph.D. of the sacred Space Institute. Check it out Here!

June 5, 2005 - Update
We have a fresh new Three's Company today. Feel free to check out my Thoughts on Expansion.
Also, it appears that the stability issues our Forums were having have been resolved. I hope we can all get back into the swing of things shortly.

June 2, 2005 - Update
Our message board forums have survived the maintainance and are back in full force! Head on over now and see what you might have missed.
Apparently our server "burped" and my latest version of Three's Company was erased. I'll try to replace it tomorrow. While you're waiting, We are happy to announce that we have a fresh new column for you! Our very own PolyAnna will be sharing some of her life experiences with us. You can read her first column here!

May 29, 2005 - Update
We have a new article today. This is a timeless piece of literature from Morning Glory Zell entitled A Bouquet of Lovers. We have also updated the Ready or Not? Section. These updates can be found at the top of the page for easy browsing.

May 27, 2005 - News
Those of you who are members of the Pagan faith should find this bit of "justice" a bit unnerving. Apparently, a judge in Indianapolis has decreed that a man and his ex-wife cannot expose their child to "non-mainstream religious beliefs and rituals". You can read this article in it's entirety here.

May 25, 2005 - Update
As promised we have an all new article today which talks about free love and poly. You can check it out here.
Also, we have yet another new member in our Forums! Let's all welcome Gufghur to our Community.

May 24, 2005 - News
Let's all welcome the newest member to join our Forums... Radagast! I hope you enjoy your time here, and look forward to seeing the Forums start to pick up and hopefully grow into something that many more folks can appreciate and utilize. Again, welcome!

May 24, 2005 - Update
I ran into some technical difficulties with the changes I was making, so I've put them on hold for now. If you are seeing things look odd, clear out your cookies and temporary internet files. I apologize for any problems this may cause, and we will have a new article tomorrow as promised.

May 23, 2005 - News
I'm in the process of making some behind the scenes changes to the Community. These are mostly related to the coding and should be virtually seamless and transparent to visitors. I expect this to be completed by tomorrow and then the article and column updates will get back on track.

May 20, 2005 - News
Welcome to the newest member of our Forums, Saffron! We look forward to talking to you and reading all the insight you have to share with our Community!

May 18, 2005 - Update
We have an all new article today. It talks about Polyfidelity and can be found Here.

May 16, 2005 - Update
The Three's Company column is all new today. In this issue I talk a little more about the "Illegitimate Husband" scenario that many expanded familes could find themselves faced with.

May 15, 2005 - Update
Okay, we have switched to a Bravenet calendar system. This calendar will allow you to look at three different views: Month, Week, or Day. I have re-entered the previously entered events for the months of June and September of this year. Check out the Events / Gatherings Section for complete information.

May 15, 2005 - News
For reasons I have yet to determine, our calendar pages are not functioning. I think they are using localized cookies which don't appear to show the events on all users computers. Until I resolve this, the calendar pages will be temporarily disabled. I apologize for the inconvenience and will resolve this as soon as possible.

May 14, 2005 - News
Welcome to Sarafina, the first official member of the user forums! Now that she has taken the step and joined, let's see if we can get some others to join too and get the Forums in use.

In unrelated news, A federal judge Thursday struck down Nebraska's ban on gay marriage, saying the measure interferes not only with the rights of gay couples but also with those of foster parents, adopted children and people in a host of other living arrangements. You can view the entire article Here.

Lastly, it appears that some folks are having trouble seeing the items listed on the calendar. If you are one of them, please drop us an email and let us know what browser your using so we can hopefully solve this.

 

May 12, 2005 - Update
Many thanks to Sara for the warm words she sent us in an email today. She is the first visitor to send us feedback and we greatly appreciate it! You can read her comments in the Letters Section. Thanks again Sara!

May 12, 2005 - News
I realize that nobody wants to be the first to join the Forums (well other than Kriek and myself, we already joined), but if we could get people to join then we could start having discussions. I'd like to get the Forums set up so that we could discuss issues there instead of having to read through so many daily digests like alot of groups have. So, who will make the first move and join up?

May 10, 2005 - News
There are now some Conferences posted for the Months of June & September 2005. Check them out in the Events / Gatherings Section. Just follow the Calendar link to get there. Click on the Event title to be taken to the information page.

May 10, 2005 - Update
Kira Lessin, founder of World Polyamory Association & School of Tantra has graciously agreed to allow us to reprint articles that she has written or hosted. Many thanks Kira! The first article is up in the Articles Section, entitled Polyamory Blossoms. Also, under the Letters Section you can read some of her thoughts regarding the Emotional & Practical Issues surrounding any Poly Family Unit.

May 9, 2005 - Update
I decided to change the layout a little bit, so that News & Updates can be seen from the main page of the Community. The old News & Updates section will be replaced by an all new Letters section. This is where we will post any letters or commentary we receive from visitors. Bare with us while we complete these changes.

May 7, 2005 - Update
Made a few additions to the Links Section. We're also in the process of talking to a few potential contributing writers from the Poly Community. We hope to have some more content for you shortly so make sure you check back frequently for updates.

May 5, 2005 - Update
The big push is finally over and we're live! Now we would like some interested writers to contribute some content to our site. If you're interested in having your writing published please check out the Contribute Writing section for more information. We'll also begin using our Live Journal within the next few days. I hope you enjoy being a part of Polyamorous Percolations.

May 4, 2005 - Update
Obviously the May 1 deadline didn't happen. I finished the Emotional Issues section tonight and hope to have the rest of the site done and ready for launch tomorrow. If that happens I'll begin making our presence known publicly within a week.

April 28, 2005 - Update
I moved the site search engine and site map that used to be found at the top of the Links page. Now you just click the " Site Search " link on the right hand side of the main page. Unlike the other navigation options throughout this Community, the " Site Search " option is only available from the main page. The Site Search box will open in a new, smaller, popup window. Not sure if we will make our May 1 deadline, as my work schedule took a huge turn for the worse this week. I'll keep you posted.

April 23, 2005 - Update
Added a site search engine and site map. (This can be found at the top of the Links page). Now I need to get into high gear as we still plan on being live by May 1st.

April 16, 2005 - Update
Added the site wide Calendar for Events / Gatherings. This is where you can add any Poly related social outings you might want others to know about.

April 14, 2005 - Update
Site development comes along nicely. We hope to be live by May 1, 2005.